Have you ever walked into a room you absolutely earned the right to be in, and still felt like someone was about to pull you aside and say, we made a mistake?
Have you landed the promotion, built the team, done the work, and immediately started wondering if it was all just luck?
Here is what most of the advice on imposter syndrome gets wrong: it treats the feeling like a problem to eliminate. Name it. Normalize it. Build a smile file. And while those strategies have real value, they are only part of the story.
In this episode of Lead with Spark, Lynsey Mulder offers a reframe that could change the way you think about self-doubt entirely. What if imposter syndrome is not a confidence problem? What if it is an alignment signal? What if the discomfort is not about what you are lacking, but about what does not fit?
Lynsey breaks down the difference between imposter syndrome as a growth signal and imposter syndrome as a misalignment signal, the three most common forms of misalignment she sees in women leaders, and three questions to help you figure out what your inner voice is actually trying to say. This episode is for the woman who has done all of the right things and still feels like she is performing a version of leadership that is not quite her.
Together We Will Talk About
- Why the most common advice on imposter syndrome is incomplete
- The difference between imposter syndrome as a growth signal and as an alignment signal
- Three specific ways misalignment shows up in women leaders
- Why your inner compass gets louder the further you drift from your authentic self
- Three powerful reflection questions to decode what your self-doubt is actually telling you
- What it looks like to lead from your real gifts instead of someone else’s expectations
- Lynsey’s own story of stepping into a role that looked great on paper but felt completely off
One Line to Take Away with You
“Imposter syndrome is not always proof that you are not enough. Sometimes it is proof that you are not quite yourself yet. And that is a very different problem with a very different solution.”
Connect with Lynsey
If this episode stirred something in you, let us keep the conversation going. Head to lynseymulder.com to book a free coaching session. We will talk about where you are, where your inner signals might be pointing, and what it would look like to lead in a way that feels like you.
- Website: LynseyMulder.com
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- LinkedIn: @Lynsey-Mulder
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